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JP Pokluda knows what it takes to date with success as a Christian. After ministering to singles for over a decade, he’s seen the pitfalls and struggles firsthand and is here to offer you a radically better way to date! JP is the author of "Outdated: Find Love that Lasts When Dating Has Changed." SUPPORT US ON PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/girldefined OUR SHOP: https://www.girldefined.com...
Are you struggling with managing conflict in your marriage, family, on your job or in your friendships? Are you constantly triggered by unresolved trauma? Then, this weeks episode is for you! Join the Lindseys as they tackle these areas. Join us LIVE on the Stereo App Mondays @ 11AM CST / 12PM EST Go to: Stereo.com/Thisiscornelius or Stereo.com/Heatherllove Subscribe on Apple - https://podc...
Yes, it’s true! Sex is a beautiful and amazing gift designed by God… but you don’t have to experience it to experience true intimacy. What in the world do we mean?? Watch the video to find out. For more on the topic of sex and intimacy, grab a copy of “Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart.” SEX, PURITY, LONGINGS BOOK: https://www.girldefined.com/our-books JOIN OUR PATREON FAMILY:...
Worry is something I have to fight against every single day. Even as a Christian, it’s often my default response. With so much going on in my own life, my family, and the world…there’s a lot to worry about. If you can relate, this is for you. Here are 3 truths that have helped me go from a heart of worry to a heart of peace. NEW BOOK: Not Part of the Plan www.girldefined.com/shop Chapters: ...
The first year of marriage can be a massive adjustment for many newlyweds. Dav and I remember that first year very well. We remember the good times, the hard times, and the confusing times. There are a few things we did to help us not just survive but thrive in that first year of marriage. If you’re seriously dating, engaged, or married, these tips are for you. Read our full love story in my ...
As Christian women, we all face struggles when it comes to our sexuality. Whether it's battling lust, navigating identity confusion, unwanted desires, or something else... we all wrestle with sexual sin in one way or another. So here's the big question: Where are we turning to for help and answers to our struggles? Where is our advice, intake, and influence coming from? Because the way we answe...
Join the Lindseys as they tackle this burning question! They also discuss idolatry in public figures, gracing others and perfectionism. Join us LIVE on the Stereo App Mondays @ 11AM CST / 12PM EST Go to: Stereo.com/Thisiscornelius or Stereo.com/Heatherllove
When I got married ten years ago, I naively assumed that the rest of my life would be easy. It didn't take long for me to learn that life is hard and marriage is challenging. Looking back on the past decade, here are my top 3 biggest regrets...and what I would do differently now. SUPPORT US ON PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/girldefined NOT PART OF THE PLAN BOOK https://www.girldefined.com...
Going into my marriage (over ten years ago), I had a lot of expectations about sex. Having been a virgin up to that point, I naively thought everything would be easy and perfect. It did turn out to be beautiful and wonderful in so many ways...but looking back now, there are a lot of things I wish I knew. Whether you're single or married, I hope you find this video helpful and encouraging. SUP...
Listen in to this week's episode of Life With the Lindseys as Heather continues the conversation of what marriage has taught her - including the good, the ugly, and everything in between. She shares practical tips to overcome complacency and tension in your marriage so that women can become victorious in their marriages. Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-...
REDFLAGS. We all have them. And when someone crosses those things we believe we absolutely can not put up with, we immediately want to throw them away. The truth of the matter is, we grow, we learn, and we change. Listen in to this week’s episode of Life With the Lindseys as Cornelius and Heather stress the importance of embracing what’s different or even difficult. What appears to be unbearabl...
Vulnerability breeds intimacy! There has been a fierce attack on marriages and the enemy is desperate to divide what God has ordained and create disorder in the home. Listen in to this week’s episode of Life With the Lindseys as Cornelius and Heather share tips to rekindle the spark in your marriage and restore fellowship! Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-th...
Every marriage isn't easy. It takes work, and agreeing to that work can be tough. While Heather is away on vacation, Cornelius sits down and answers questions about rekindling your marriage, removing the filters, having tough conversations and just getting real. Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify - https://open.s...
Boundaries are important for every Christian marriage, but it can be hard to know what to talk about or where to start. What sort of boundaries should you consider? What would be helpful? Although the word "boundaries" might sound restrictive at first glance, boundaries should be there to serve you and ultimately help your marriage thrive. Whether you're married, engaged, dating, or single, thi...
We receive emails and DM's regularly from Christian girls and women who have specific questions about porn. They genuinely want answers, but feel too ashamed or embarrassed to ask their questions out loud. It's time to break the silence. Porn is an ongoing struggle for a lot of Christian women. It also impacts thousands of dating relationships and marriages. It's time to have a candid and open ...
We all have desires that go unfulfilled. We all have prayers that feel unanswered We all have circumstances that we wish we could change. None of us can escape this reality of life. Kristen Clark and Morgan Olliges are no strangers to this conversation. They both open up the most raw areas of their lives with us today, talking about how they are fighting to fully trust God in every area. To le...
Modesty is a hot button topic, and one that we've talked about a lot here at Girl Defined. But you may have noticed that we haven't been talking about it much lately. And that's because we've been having a lot of conversations behind the scenes on how our views have changed, and what it looks like to best represent them today. Yes, we still believe modesty is a Biblical and important topic to d...
Porn is not empowering, it’s degrading. If you’re struggling with a porn addition as a Christian woman, or just find yourself taking the occasional glance, we invite you into this helpful conversation. 🌷 As a woman, you are beautiful creation of God, made in His image, and He wants so much more for you than porn. Your sexual desires are an intentional part of your God-given design, and He want...
The ways that we choose to train our children have a lasting impact on their lives. Listen in to this week's episode of Life with the Lindseys as Cornelius and Heather share their individual and unique parenting styles that's helped shape their children. Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify - https://open.spotify.c...
Cornelius and Heather are back, and they're talking about trying new things. When life gets boring, it's time to spice things up. Listen as Heather and Cornelius differ on a few things as it relates to new adventures, and find out which personality you identify with the most. Enjoy! Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spo...
We're talking rejection. Do you feel yourself chasing after approval? Is your career and relationships built off of solely receiving validation from others? Do you have this constant feeling of unworthiness? Where does this stem from? Listen in to this week’s episode of Life With the Lindseys as Cornelius and Heather share their own experiences with rejection and how not to let these experience...
Cornelius and Heather sit down to discuss love languages. Are they beneficial in relationships? They talk about how their love languages have changed over the years. And, listen to what they encourage couples to do concerning them. Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/43FDQiykBrSdrFx...
Cornelius and Heather are back with another episode. Today, they're talking about effective communication. With a mixture of seriousness, laughter and playful jabs, they talk about what communication means and what it isn't. Listen to learn about the 5 Percent. Download the Glorify App TODAY! https://share.glorify-app.com/1ry8Yd1Ulhb Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/...
Cornelius and Heather celebrate 11 years of marriage. They sit down to discuss 11 things they learned in 11 years of marriage. This is a really fun episode. It's great for singles and married folks. Enjoy! Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/43FDQiykBrSdrFxETgam2C
Are you struggling in your marriage? Do you find yourself frustrated and stuck? If so, Heather and Cornelius discuss the importance of having a vision, not giving up and working through hard times in your marriage. Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/43FDQiykBrSdrFxETgam2C
The Lindseys sit down to discuss the root of Heather's overthinking and why Cornelius is so laid back about life now. They also enter the forbidden territory of talking about regret. Yes, they share what they regret, and their answers may shock you. Listen in to find out! Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify - http...
Cornelius and Heather discuss 4 important emotional needs that every child must have filled by his/her parent before the age of 12. They discuss them in length and share their childhood experiences. This episode is great for marriages, singles and those thinking about getting married.
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