Words like "true self" and "my truth" are really popular today...but do they line up with Scripture? As Christians, does God want us to embrace our true self as we see fit? Or does He have something else in store for us? Let's find out. SHINE BRIGHT DEVOTIONAL https://www.girldefined.com/shine 2021 GIRL DEFINED CONFERENCE https://www.girldefined.com/conference JOIN OUR PATREON FAMILY: http...
First dates can be really awesome and really awkward, right?! The best way to rid yourself of first date jitters is to show up prepared. These three questions are must-haves and will help you figure out if date #2 is even a good idea. QUESTIONS: 1. What does being a Christian mean to you? 2. What role do you think the Bible should play in a person’s life today? 3. What’s something “random” t...
In the wake of purity culture, many Christian girls and women found themselves pursuing purity with the expectation that they would one day experience awesome marital sex as their reward. Maybe you bought into this mindset yourself. Purity became a commodity that would one day be traded in for the reward of sex. Let's unpack why this mindset isn't Biblical and take a look at the true beauty of ...
Some of the most common questions we get from the sisterhood include things like, "do you fight as sisters?" And, "do you struggle with comparison?" The answer is...YES and YES. We are sisters and we do love each other a ton, but we're also sinners. We wrestle with the same type of conflict, comparison, and jealously as everyone else. Thankfully, God has grown us a lot over the years in these a...
Do you want to live for what truly matters? I promise you that living for Christ will FREE you from the weight and anxiety of striving to please others. This message will empower you as a Christian woman with biblical hope and truth. You were made to shine bright for Christ! Let’s figure out how to do that together. www.GirlDefined.com
Identity is one of the hottest buzz words of our day. And with good reason...it's a BIG deal! That's why our modern culture is obsessed with giving us advice on how to discover who we are. We're told to "look within" ourselves to discover our truest self. This sounds liberating at first glance, but it's an enormous burden we were never created to bear. We were never designed to define ourselves...
He's a great Christian guy and seems to have a heart of gold...but there's just one small problem - you're not attracted to him at all! What should you do? Is it okay to turn a guy down simply because you're not attracted to him physically? Does the Bible have anything to say about this? Is it even worth it to get to know him to see if attraction grows? Let's unpack this popular (and hard) ques...
Heather Lindsey’s partnership with Compassion International has resulted in 95 children being sponsored! Compassion International is a Christ-led and children-focused ministry that’s committed to pairing compassionate people with children living in extreme poverty to release the children from spiritual, economic, social, and physical poverty. Listen as Heather takes the time to answer your ques...
JP Pokluda knows what it takes to date with success as a Christian. After ministering to singles for over a decade, he’s seen the pitfalls and struggles firsthand and is here to offer you a radically better way to date! JP is the author of "Outdated: Find Love that Lasts When Dating Has Changed." SUPPORT US ON PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/girldefined OUR SHOP: https://www.girldefined.com...
Worry is something I have to fight against every single day. Even as a Christian, it’s often my default response. With so much going on in my own life, my family, and the world…there’s a lot to worry about. If you can relate, this is for you. Here are 3 truths that have helped me go from a heart of worry to a heart of peace. NEW BOOK: Not Part of the Plan www.girldefined.com/shop Chapters: ...
As Christian women, we all face struggles when it comes to our sexuality. Whether it's battling lust, navigating identity confusion, unwanted desires, or something else... we all wrestle with sexual sin in one way or another. So here's the big question: Where are we turning to for help and answers to our struggles? Where is our advice, intake, and influence coming from? Because the way we answe...
The first year of marriage can be a massive adjustment for many newlyweds. Dav and I remember that first year very well. We remember the good times, the hard times, and the confusing times. There are a few things we did to help us not just survive but thrive in that first year of marriage. If you’re seriously dating, engaged, or married, these tips are for you. Read our full love story in my ...
Yes, it’s true! Sex is a beautiful and amazing gift designed by God… but you don’t have to experience it to experience true intimacy. What in the world do we mean?? Watch the video to find out. For more on the topic of sex and intimacy, grab a copy of “Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart.” SEX, PURITY, LONGINGS BOOK: https://www.girldefined.com/our-books JOIN OUR PATREON FAMILY:...
Join the Lindseys as they tackle this burning question! They also discuss idolatry in public figures, gracing others and perfectionism. Join us LIVE on the Stereo App Mondays @ 11AM CST / 12PM EST Go to: Stereo.com/Thisiscornelius or Stereo.com/Heatherllove
Going into my marriage (over ten years ago), I had a lot of expectations about sex. Having been a virgin up to that point, I naively thought everything would be easy and perfect. It did turn out to be beautiful and wonderful in so many ways...but looking back now, there are a lot of things I wish I knew. Whether you're single or married, I hope you find this video helpful and encouraging. SUP...
Listen in to this week's episode of Life With the Lindseys as Heather continues the conversation of what marriage has taught her - including the good, the ugly, and everything in between. She shares practical tips to overcome complacency and tension in your marriage so that women can become victorious in their marriages. Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-...
Porn is not empowering, it’s degrading. If you’re struggling with a porn addition as a Christian woman, or just find yourself taking the occasional glance, we invite you into this helpful conversation. 🌷 As a woman, you are beautiful creation of God, made in His image, and He wants so much more for you than porn. Your sexual desires are an intentional part of your God-given design, and He want...
Boundaries are important for every Christian marriage, but it can be hard to know what to talk about or where to start. What sort of boundaries should you consider? What would be helpful? Although the word "boundaries" might sound restrictive at first glance, boundaries should be there to serve you and ultimately help your marriage thrive. Whether you're married, engaged, dating, or single, thi...
Modesty is a hot button topic, and one that we've talked about a lot here at Girl Defined. But you may have noticed that we haven't been talking about it much lately. And that's because we've been having a lot of conversations behind the scenes on how our views have changed, and what it looks like to best represent them today. Yes, we still believe modesty is a Biblical and important topic to d...
We all have desires that go unfulfilled. We all have prayers that feel unanswered We all have circumstances that we wish we could change. None of us can escape this reality of life. Kristen Clark and Morgan Olliges are no strangers to this conversation. They both open up the most raw areas of their lives with us today, talking about how they are fighting to fully trust God in every area. To le...
We receive emails and DM's regularly from Christian girls and women who have specific questions about porn. They genuinely want answers, but feel too ashamed or embarrassed to ask their questions out loud. It's time to break the silence. Porn is an ongoing struggle for a lot of Christian women. It also impacts thousands of dating relationships and marriages. It's time to have a candid and open ...
This week, Heather discusses what to do when it seems like you continually hit roadblocks in your life. Join her in this conversation from a biblical and practical perspective. Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/43FDQiykBrSdrFxETgam2C
Join Heather Lindsey this evening at 9:00pm EST for her LIVE Pinky Promise Study about how to balance your life and manage your schedule!
Cornelius and Heather are back with another episode. This time they bring along with them the co-founder and CEO of the Glorify App, Henry Costa to discuss how he was able to create such a successful Christian meditation application. Download the Glorify App TODAY! https://share.glorify-app.com/1ry8Yd1Ulhb Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id148...
Cornelius and Heather celebrate 11 years of marriage. They sit down to discuss 11 things they learned in 11 years of marriage. This is a really fun episode. It's great for singles and married folks. Enjoy! Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/43FDQiykBrSdrFxETgam2C
Cornelius and Heather discuss 4 important emotional needs that every child must have filled by his/her parent before the age of 12. They discuss them in length and share their childhood experiences. This episode is great for marriages, singles and those thinking about getting married.
Heather shares her top favorite tips on how to balance a busy life. One of her favorite new tips is hiring people that she can trust to help with her busy schedule! Move over Care.com Mywoosah is literally the best child care provider out there. Use code: HEATHER to sign up at www.mywoosah.com and get 15% off your 1st month of service.MyWoosah is on IG and Facebook, check out their website: w...
Today is a chatty Q&A Mummy video. I'm answering some questions that were sent in about being a working mum. I'm sharing my experience, practical tips and encouragement. I really hope this helps and I would LOVE to know your thoughts too so comment below and lets chat there too. With love, Bibiana x 🔴 Thanks so much as always for LIKING, SUBSCRIBING & SHARING our journey with us! If you ar...
(FOLDER LINK BELOW AT THE END - IT’S FREE) ☺️ I'm bringing you behind the scenes and sharing our home learning morning routine today. Thank you again for the suggestions for a homeschool video. I realised I show bits of this in the vlogs and on my Instagram stories but today I'm giving a more detailed look at what we do. I'm starting with the learning folder and routine I use for my 3 year ...
Today I am answering your pregnancy questions! Links to all products mentioned are below. It's a long one, so I've included timestamps in the comment section below for each question. With love, Bibiana x ↪️ INFO/LINKS*: 1. Nausea/Sickness Natural remedy - https://amzn.to/2QRoSeB or https://amzn.to/3dyGyFx 2. Nausea/ Sickness prescription (speak to your Doctor before taking anything)- Prochlor...
Here I talk about how you can get your children off the screens and finish work faster and more efficiently by quitting virtual schooling. Videos on the curriculums I use:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifVlZgCqnk8&t=1227s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yOocKNZ6wPk&t=1281s My homeschooling morning routine:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRsSzsLgJxY&t=1181s Homeschooling Requirements for you...
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