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Have you ever felt like your emotions were totally and completely out of control?? Almost like someone hijacked your brain and left a crazy girl there instead? We’ve been there. Many times. So what do we do in those hard moments when our feelings seem overwhelming? How do we walk in truth, wisdom,…
Maybe you've been thinking about how amazing it would be to have a godly woman mentor you, but you're not sure how to make that happen. If you follow these simple steps, we bet you'll have a mentor within 30 days or less. Seriously! Give it a try. SHINE BRIGHT DEVOTIONAL:…
Way too often Christian women are left out of the conversations happening about sexual struggles. Somewhere along the way in churches this became a “guy only issue.” Lust isn’t just a guy problem, it’s a human problem. In today’s video, we’re having a follow up conversation to the most recent…
First dates can be super awkward and really exciting all at the same time. Here's the number one thing I think you should look for when going out for the first time. Shine Bright: www.girldefined.com/shine Love Defined: www.girldefined.com/lovedefined 5 Questions to Ask on a First Date:…
It's never fun to talk about breaking up with someone...but sometimes we have to lean into hard situations in order to obey God. If you're a Christian girl and you're currently dating a non-Christian guy, we hope you'll find this conversation encouraging, hope-filled, and loving...because that's…
Having a quiet time on a daily basis is HARD. Whenever we ask the GD Sisterhood if you all struggle in this area, we get a resounding YES! That’s exactly why we wrote Shine Bright: 60 Days to Becoming a Girl Defined by God. This new devo will equip you to dig into the Word every single day. Grab…
Life can be absolutely heartbreaking at times. It’s no secret that we all face moments or seasons filled with circumstances that we never wanted. Is it possible to have have hope even in the worst of moments? Let’s find out together. You can grab a copy of Shine Bright: 60 Days to Becoming a Girl…
Devotionals can either be a really good or really bad tool to help you with your quiet time. Knowing how to cut through the fluff and pick something with substance is crucial if you’re going to use one. In today’s video, I give you three questions to ask yourself when picking out a new devotional.…
Do you feel timid and weak when it comes to embracing God’s design for womanhood? Are you afraid to stand for truth on social media and in your friend groups? 😵 Sis - it’s time to put the wimpiness behind us and become a generation of women who pursue God’s truth unapologetically! SHINE BRIGHT…
What actually happens during those first 30 days of marriage? Why does it seem like some couples have nothing but honeymoon bliss while others find themselves disappointed and disillusioned? Here's what YOU should actually expect. 2021 GIRL DEFINED CONFERENCE https://www.girldefined.com/conference…
First dates can be really awesome and really awkward, right?! The best way to rid yourself of first date jitters is to show up prepared. These three questions are must-haves and will help you figure out if date #2 is even a good idea. QUESTIONS: 1. What does being a Christian mean to you? 2. What…
Words like "true self" and "my truth" are really popular today...but do they line up with Scripture? As Christians, does God want us to embrace our true self as we see fit? Or does He have something else in store for us? Let's find out. SHINE BRIGHT DEVOTIONAL https://www.girldefined.com/shine 2021…
In the wake of purity culture, many Christian girls and women found themselves pursuing purity with the expectation that they would one day experience awesome marital sex as their reward. Maybe you bought into this mindset yourself. Purity became a commodity that would one day be traded in for the…
Do you want to live for what truly matters? I promise you that living for Christ will FREE you from the weight and anxiety of striving to please others. This message will empower you as a Christian woman with biblical hope and truth. You were made to shine bright for Christ! Let’s figure out how to…
Identity is one of the hottest buzz words of our day. And with good reason...it's a BIG deal! That's why our modern culture is obsessed with giving us advice on how to discover who we are. We're told to "look within" ourselves to discover our truest self. This sounds liberating at first glance, but…
Some of the most common questions we get from the sisterhood include things like, "do you fight as sisters?" And, "do you struggle with comparison?" The answer is...YES and YES. We are sisters and we do love each other a ton, but we're also sinners. We wrestle with the same type of conflict,…
He's a great Christian guy and seems to have a heart of gold...but there's just one small problem - you're not attracted to him at all! What should you do? Is it okay to turn a guy down simply because you're not attracted to him physically? Does the Bible have anything to say about this? Is it even…
Heather Lindsey’s partnership with Compassion International has resulted in 95 children being sponsored! Compassion International is a Christ-led and children-focused ministry that’s committed to pairing compassionate people with children living in extreme poverty to release the children from…
The first year of marriage can be a massive adjustment for many newlyweds. Dav and I remember that first year very well. We remember the good times, the hard times, and the confusing times. There are a few things we did to help us not just survive but thrive in that first year of marriage. If…
As Christian women, we all face struggles when it comes to our sexuality. Whether it's battling lust, navigating identity confusion, unwanted desires, or something else... we all wrestle with sexual sin in one way or another. So here's the big question: Where are we turning to for help and answers…
Worry is something I have to fight against every single day. Even as a Christian, it’s often my default response. With so much going on in my own life, my family, and the world…there’s a lot to worry about. If you can relate, this is for you. Here are 3 truths that have helped me go from a heart of…
Yes, it’s true! Sex is a beautiful and amazing gift designed by God… but you don’t have to experience it to experience true intimacy. What in the world do we mean?? Watch the video to find out. For more on the topic of sex and intimacy, grab a copy of “Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s…
Going into my marriage (over ten years ago), I had a lot of expectations about sex. Having been a virgin up to that point, I naively thought everything would be easy and perfect. It did turn out to be beautiful and wonderful in so many ways...but looking back now, there are a lot of things I wish I…
Listen in to this week's episode of Life With the Lindseys as Heather continues the conversation of what marriage has taught her - including the good, the ugly, and everything in between. She shares practical tips to overcome complacency and tension in your marriage so that women can become…
Porn is not empowering, it’s degrading. If you’re struggling with a porn addition as a Christian woman, or just find yourself taking the occasional glance, we invite you into this helpful conversation. 🌷 As a woman, you are beautiful creation of God, made in His image, and He wants so much more…
Modesty is a hot button topic, and one that we've talked about a lot here at Girl Defined. But you may have noticed that we haven't been talking about it much lately. And that's because we've been having a lot of conversations behind the scenes on how our views have changed, and what it looks like…
We receive emails and DM's regularly from Christian girls and women who have specific questions about porn. They genuinely want answers, but feel too ashamed or embarrassed to ask their questions out loud. It's time to break the silence. Porn is an ongoing struggle for a lot of Christian women. It…
Boundaries are important for every Christian marriage, but it can be hard to know what to talk about or where to start. What sort of boundaries should you consider? What would be helpful? Although the word "boundaries" might sound restrictive at first glance, boundaries should be there to serve you…
This week, Heather discusses what to do when it seems like you continually hit roadblocks in your life. Join her in this conversation from a biblical and practical perspective. Subscribe on Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-the-lindseys/id1482171974 Subscribe on Spotify -…
Join Heather Lindsey this evening at 9:00pm EST for her LIVE Pinky Promise Study about how to balance your life and manage your schedule!
Cornelius and Heather discuss 4 important emotional needs that every child must have filled by his/her parent before the age of 12. They discuss them in length and share their childhood experiences. This episode is great for marriages, singles and those thinking about getting married.
Heather shares her top favorite tips on how to balance a busy life. One of her favorite new tips is hiring people that she can trust to help with her busy schedule! Move over Care.com Mywoosah is literally the best child care provider out there. Use code: HEATHER to sign up at www.mywoosah.com and…
