God Told Me to Leave AKA: The Dark Side of Divine 9 No One Talks About (Shocking Truth)
In this episode of Completely Set Apart, Together, we sit down with Kela Singletary — wife, mother, businesswoman — who boldly walked away from Alpha Kappa Alpha after God revealed it was time to come out from among them.
We talk real — pledging, rituals, spiritual warfare, mixture in the church, and the pressure of legacy in the Black community. This isn’t just about AKA or the Divine 9 — this is about IDOLATRY and OBEDIENCE. You don't want to miss this testimony!
Topics Covered and Timestamps:
00:00 START
06:54 Intro: Who Is Kela Singletary? Her Story, Calling & Testimony
07:36 Why She Joined AKA: Legacy, Sisterhood & Cultural Pressure
09:00 Inside the AKA Pledging Process: Emotions, Pain & Spiritual Conflict
14:58 Was God Pleased? Examining Divine Approval of Greek Life
17:50 D9 Rituals at Weddings & Funerals: A Christian Perspective
23:54 Identity After Crossing: How Greek Life Changed Her Spiritually
26:16 D9 Pastors in the Pulpit: The Danger of Spiritual Mixture
31:15 The Holy Spirit's Warning: When God Told Her to Denounce
37:38 The Struggles of Letting Go: Soul Ties, Fear & Obedience
40:55 Backlash After Denouncing AKA: Family, Friends & Believers React
41:45 Spiritual Warfare & Demonic Soul Ties: What She Faced After Leaving
46:45 Walking with God After D9: Restoration & Spiritual Growth
48:14 Is It Sin or Just Conviction? Truth vs. Cultural Justification
55:23 Are You Struggling to Let Go of D9?: God’s Call to Surrender | Kela’s personal message
56:48 What It Means to Be Set Apart: Life After Denouncing Greek Life
📖 “So fear the Lord and serve Him wholeheartedly... But as for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.” — Joshua 24:14-15
💼 About Kela Singletary:
Kela is a wife, mother, author, and entrepreneur. She’s the co-founder of Singletary Solutions and Tiny & True, a children’s brand helping little ones grow in Christ. With a background in law and business strategy, Kela is passionate about living boldly for Jesus and helping others do the same.
📩 info@tinyandtrue.com | 📱 @chikelao (IG) | @kela_bee (TikTok)
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Kela testimony answers the question: “Why I denounced the Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc.”