Authenticity Wins: Attracting the Right Man for You

when you're inviting a man to pursue you don't do anything that's too unnatural for your personality So as a woman when you're inviting a man you want to think of things to do that build bridges with him but that build bridges to the true you So for example if you're more introverted don't try to pretend to be more extroverted vice versa And if you're not that athletic and you don't enjoy athletics and you know he's athletic it could still work But don't try to be someone you're not If you're just more serious naturally don't try to pretend to be bubbly And likewise if you're more lighthearted naturally don't try to pretend to be this serious person just because you think that's what this man wants.