How to Ignite Passion: Encourage a Proactive Partner

There needs to be a proactive approach from the man after you do the initial spark of invitation Because if you keep inviting if the man responds positively but only when you're initiating the danger is that you're gonna end up with a passive man he's going to always need you to be the leader and you don't want that So again you really wanna think of inviting a man more like a spark that gets the fire going rather than continually adding log after log after log to keep the fire going Once you make the initial spark and he shows interest it should then be a mutual progression forward where you both are fueling the fire in a healthy way Notice that after Ruth made a clear invitation to Boaz in Ruth chapter 3 from that point forward Boaz was very proactive throughout Ruth chapter 4