Is Purity Outdated? Why This Gen Z Daughter is Questioning Everything

"Mom, isn't waiting until marriage just... old school?"

Welcome back to the channel, Purified Fam. Today, I’m getting incredibly vulnerable and sharing a clip that many parents of teens and young adults will recognize. My daughter—who is a beautiful, young believer—started asking the questions that a lot of us are afraid to answer. In a world that tells her that purity is "archaic" and abstinence is "prudish," she’s honestly wondering if this standard is still relevant for her generation.

In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we dive into the heart of why we wait. It isn't just about a set of "old school" rules or a 1st-century custom that doesn't fit the 21st century. It’s about recognizing that our bodies belong to God and that purity is a timeless standard of holiness, not just a cultural trend.

In this video, we discuss:

Validating the Doubt: Why it's okay (and necessary) for young believers to ask "Why?" instead of just following blind tradition.

The "Old School" Label: How to reframe "outdated" rules as eternal protections that save us from unnecessary emotional and spiritual baggage.

Parental Grace: How I navigate these tough questions without using shame or "lizard brain" logic, but instead pointing her back to the beauty of God's design.

The "Why" Behind the Wait: Sex is designed by God and it is good, but it is a sacred union reserved for the safety of covenant.

If you are a young believer struggling with these same questions, or a parent trying to lead your child through a sex-saturated culture, this video is for you. Let's talk about it.

Watch, Subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments. Is waiting "old school" to you?

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